This post has no coherent theme...but thanks for reading

My current list of blog topics that I must write about range from: "The strange indian painting hanging in my room" to "Can I carry a rainbow bag without being gay?"

For now, I'll stick to the topics that seem most pressing, such as, what exactly is a turducken? I was amazed to find the answer to this question through a great blog that I recently found, the julie/julia project (the inspiration for the upcoming movie and another item on my list of things I must blog about - killing two birds with one stone! I love it! Not killing birds but, you know). A turducken is a "a turkey, stuffed with a duck, stuffed with a chicken, with oyster dressing inside the chicken, andouille dressing between the chicken and the duck, and cornbread dressing between the duck and the turkey" (source) Gross. But it would make a nice name for a little pet dog.

To venture off-topic, I have a little gripe to share. It's great to have friends. I'm realizing this more now that I have none within a 500-mile radius. Not being a fan of the cell phone, I keep in touch with people mostly through email and text-messages. So when I have a problem, I talk about it - seek advice or maybe just someone to listen. Listen is the operative word here. I'll cut to the chase. I have had more than one person say recently, "I don't know anything about_____ but I think you should________"

I can personally attest to an inability to admitting that I don't know something. To be honest, I try to make an educated guess and then I usually go look it up online. It's hard to admit you don't know when it's so easy to find out. In matters of giving advice however, I think it's important to say "I don't know. It's up to you to decide."

Since this blog clearly has no subject, defying all rules of good writing, I'll just continue on with a thought I had last night. I've been watching a lot of movies lately - I really enjoy them. I consider t.v. a distraction, but movies are different. Much more intentional. It occurred to me last night that what I'm actually doing is trading in 90-120 minutes of my time to watch something that someone has spent months and years creating - all compressed into this little package. It is potential energy. The difference between eating a slice of white bread and a slice of sprouted grain bread. The same goes for books, a labor of love, laid out on a platter to just soak up at your leisure. The best way I can think to spend time, until I can create something as brilliant.

And for your enjoyment, a picture (above) taken today at Hollywood Video, encouraging healthy behavior (photo cred: jonah and his ability to be stealthy)

Judging a book by its cover

Books are amazing. They are like little packages that are portable, available and of course, tell a story. I've always been attracted to books because of their covers - sadly, I've not yet read any of the books above, but I thoroughly appreciate their visual appeal. They are all put out by New Directions - on their website, they have SO many awesome covers - I just couldn't post them all, so I chose some from the nearest bookshelf...

Post-weekend

I drank a bottle of wine on Monday and haven't felt the same since. Since then, my body has worked hard to recover - to filter out the poison that I ingested - that I enjoy - and that joins me now as I sit at my new favorite coffeeshop. That is, coffee. I sit in coffeshops a lot, for hours, and I never tire of the environment. Today is especially exciting because there is a job interview going on to my left - not the first time this has happened - and again, I never tire of it - watching job interviews that is. During a momentary break from the interview process, the interviewer went outside and came back smelling of perfume... During her absence, a man who intermitently attempted conversation with the woman, was shaking his foot rapidly-that kind of unconscious nervous foot/knee shake that happens when taking a written test. I gave him a half-turn glance and the frantic movement ceased. The second person to be interviewed had terrible posture, much like I have now, but have since adjusted.

Yoga helps posture, I've heard, and flexibility. I came across a website earlier designed by a girl I sort of knew from Boston. She tried to name all the poses because it seemed (to her) that poses were being called contradictory names in the years of her practice. It seems to me that there are definite names of poses that exist in Sanskrit and perhaps these are the names that have been lost in translation. She drinks a lot, as shown by her pictures, but also likes yoga. I can add this to the things that I don't understand and the things that I also engage in myself.

In this coffeeshop, it feels safe to leave my laptop, keys and purse at my table while I visit the restroom. It is Nashville, after all, and I feel a sense of communal safety here, at my new favorite coffeeshop. Plus, everyone else here already has a laptop and a set of keys and a purse or a wallet.... I wish that stealing was more accepted or at least more commonplace - actually I just wish I could steal something every so often, but I get so nervous. I especially like to steal food b/c it's already too expensive and all the people who should profit from it, never do.

But stealing is wrong and I already feel guilty enough. Guilt - an emotion that my sculpture teacher once said, was the most useless emotion of all - a statement that shocked us all, not because we didn't agree, but because it didn't seem as though he had a past or regrets or emotions. Just a pair of eyeglasses and a ranging vocabulary that included words like 'negative space' and 'figurative.' But anyway, I know the commandments and all, not sure which number is the one for stealing. I went to church but missed the basics. This has continued to happen all my life - I miss the basics. Prefer the end result. Love cooking, hate washing dishes.

After a super long, semi-involuntary hiatus...I'm back!!!!! (hold the applause please)

Whew. After months unknown unable to recover a password for this here blog, I was able to log in magically. The power of the internet! Also, being away made me realize how much I miss it! It's so nice that the internet can house my random thoughts and ramblings - in my own hopes that someday they will make sense and bring all the wonderful things in the world together.

So, a new thing that I discovered which I LOVE is the post-punk kitchen on google video! I knew about the ppk and have their 'vegan cupcakes take over the world' book which is awesome - especially the chai latte cupcakes! But I never knew they had their own show - which you can watch entirely here.

Also, one other thing which I totally stole from a Boston blog New Brahmin, but which I love so much, that I feel ok about taking it....is......The Uniform Project - an idea completely after my own heart where a girl (who also inspires me to cut my hair) is wearing the same dress everyday for a year and is raising money for education in India - the story is much deeper than that and involves her own experience in grade school wearing uniforms and adding 'personal flair.' Like most good causes I come across these days, I sadly cannot donate, but it's still super inspiring and a great idea for introducting simplicity and creativity into my wardrobe instead of relying on buying buying buying. Which is a relief.

And the final plug I have for totally awesome things is the wnyc show radiolab. I'm sure I've already told everyone about this and have to give credit to my friend Sally who originally introduced it to me. It is just an incredibly dynamic fascinating program that continually amazes me - last night I listened to how, because cpr is so reliant on the proper rhythm, a new technique is being introduced where commonly known songs with the same tempo of the proper cpr rhythm are used to help people be more successful at the technique ( is that clear? or incredibly wordy-oh well, I don't want to edit) Ironically the song they use is "Stayin' Alive." The other song that also works at the same tempo is "Another one bites the dust." Needless to say, they chose the first option - good program - if you don't already know about it - check it out, HERE.

Owls and ladybugs...because they're lucky

Inglewood: Our nice little neighborhood in East Nashville

A door behind The Family Wash, a music venue in the area

Loretta's Bar or Nashville: Day Twelve

(names, including name of bar, have been changed. Except for Jonah, who took the above photo)

Well, I should actually say "Nashvulle" cause that's how all y'all say it down here. Anyhow, tonight took the cake in terms of gettin' to know the real music city. It all started around 6 pm which felt like around 2 cause see, we didn't wake up til about noon after staying up real late last night playing music-or pickin' and grinin' , I should say. So back to the story, well Jonah and I went out with his friend Jim who works with a woman, Sally and she frequents (3 nights this week) a little bar called Loretta's. Now, my first mistake was trying to find their website so we could get directions, cause see, they ain't got one. Well, anyway, we found our way over there after almost runnin' right into the river. I missed the turn-off but we got there all right and let me tell ya, this AINT a place you just walk into-I mean you got to have a membership or something for this place. It was the real deal-Now, it wasn't an underground bar or even spectacular to look at or nothin', but the folks in this place, well, let's just say they been there a while and they weren't quite ready to accept anyone who wasn't their own kind.

Luckily, we had an in-Jims friend Sally-who, as far as I can tell, survives off a diet of Bud Light, Menthol Pall Mall lights and shakes of salt that she licks of her hand every 10-15 minutes or so. Don't know what the salts was there for anyway-it aint for no tequila shots-I didn't see nothin' but Bud Light buckets floatin' round that place. Well anyway, Sally was real nice and she sat with us in between pool games-told me about the old days when Protestants married Protestants and Catholics married Catholics-and about how 'blacks' had to sit at the back of the bus, cause thats just the way they liked it, or so "Big-Mama" (her grandmother) said. But now things are a little bit more relaxed though not too much time went by before I heard every kind of racial joke in the book-well, that didn't stop us from talking religion at least-and about ex-wives [not mine] and drinkin' too much. There were some nice people there though-I just wish I could tell ya what half of 'em said, but truth is, I ain't got no idea. Now, I can read lips pretty well, but some kinds of accents and the lack of teeth coupled with a drunken slur and a jukebox playin' in the background-well, i didn't hear much of what come out of their mouths.

It was fun though till the second bucket of beer-by that time the air was so thick with smoke, you couldn't just cut it with a knife, you couldn't even see quite across the room-cause see they ain't got any ventilation in the place, so just sometimes they crack the door open (which thankfully was near us) but it was pretty darn cold and rainy out tonight. Supposed to be warmer by Monday, but anyway, didn't stop me from lookin' for the bathroom which I had been warned about-between avoiding contact with any surface and holding the door that didn't have no lock on it-well, it was alright-just the sign above the toilet said, "If theres no toilet paper, look in here [arrow pointed towards mirror/medicine cabinet] Thanks! mgmt " Underneath someone wrote "If there aint any, am I supposed to wipe my ass with my face" Which underneath that someone wrote "If you can, you go girl!"

So with relief that no one had walked in on me, and relief from relieving myself after a quarter a bucket of beer, I made my way back to our little table in the corner and my new friends, set my beer on the corner table/cardboard box covered in old coasters, packaged party lights, and a moldy gourd sittin' in a plastic dish.

Truth is, the people there, they was like a family and look at me here talkin' just like 'em-well, it's kind of charming and they are good people, even if half of 'em carry guns and only like white people. I am happy to see a side of Nashvulle that not everyone sees, specially us Northerners.

Memphis, Tennessee

Memphis, TN - down the st. from Sun Records (photo by Jonah)

Inside the front office (above, below) at Sun Records where Elvis first recorded

Beale St. - pedestrian-only block where drinking in the st. is A-o.k.

Painted window at Huey's Burgers

Near Parking Lot and Hotel (not ours)

Graceland Museum

The Lorraine Motel/Civil Rights Museum (above), across the st. (below)

On the way home to Nashville, Interstate 40

I'm tightly holding onto the smells and the clothes. My scarves, bangles and hair oil. I avoid eye contact with men and stay closely to those with whom I walk. I am an American but in so many ways I felt and wished that I was Indian. Landing in Mumbai was perhaps the most exciting moment of my life-once I started to breathe again after the flight attendants fumigated the plane with pesticides. Walking through the airport-seriously outdated, that sort of linoleum green that flooded middle schools across the country-our country, the U.S. which would have created a much easier system for navigating not only the airport and the missing luggage, but streets with no street signs, the traffic crossings with no lights, no stop signs or rear view mirrors for that matter. It would have been illegal here to allow cows to roam through city streets-social workers would be out collecting the children that sleep on those same streets when the cows retire and the stray dogs come out to play. The air was thick on that first night and I was in India.

Three weeks later, I've gotten used to the game. I know how to avoid the scam-complete avoidance-ignoring any person, voice or hand that taps you on the shoulder-any Indian who approaches you is not just trying to be nice-everyone stares-everyone-and then there are the real people who don't want anything just because I am white.

And I don't want to give up-I want to hate it so bad that I love it-because that feels so real. How sad to me that I have never experienced this before. To fight for space and work for food. To rub the layer of accumulated dirt off the arms that amazingly never got a sunburn-because it's winter-and it's still 80 degrees. The train gently rocking me to sleep-my first chai on the streets- a Bollywood star named Katrina, who I apparently bear a resemblance to (not that I'm complaining)- and the girl on the bus to Agra who asked me for a pen and when I gave it to her, thanked me and made it her own. The Taj Mahal, which despite my ability to have low expectations for architechtural feats, completely blew me away-as I stood barefoot at dawn with less than a hundred people and very very few tourists. It was the food and disregard for utensils-the liter bottles of water covered in dust selling for the equivalent of 20 cents. The drivers who used their own bodies to pedal you through the streets, willing to wait until you came out of the movies or dinner to take you home to the hotel where they only turn the hot water on from 8 to 12 and 5 to 8.

Where there is a wedding every night and where that means a white horse and trails of marigolds and a parade through the streets with 4 foot tall flourescent bulbs and a personal power generator. The craziness-the open space where someone had been, will be, or has lived their entire lives-the water with no dissolvable oxygen that houses dolphins while being fed a constant flow of the departed.

Being thankful for what you have because poverty is all around. Karma and the pursuit to change it-avoid being born again and again-marketing spirituality and putting red powder on my forehead with bits of rice while I am handed a coconut. "A coconut?" I ask, confused, reciting words that I think are Hindi, but cannot ask in English, except to say, "Donation? Sorry, I don't think I agreed to this. I'm not even a practicing Catholic, let alone a Hindu."

Dead puppies, piglets, fires in garbage pits, motor cycles, the flies, head bobbles, betel nut. English beer and liquor stores. Chapati. Madam, Sir. Nearly dying every day in traffic that defies all laws I once learned in a manual. No problem.

-"Where from?"
-"America"
-"Ah, the U.S. Very good country."
-"Yeah"
-"Mmm. Obama. Very good."

near the 'Gateway to India' in Mumbai

Churchgate Train Station, Mumbai

On the road to Varanasi

The Ganges River at dawn, Varanasi

A goat on the steps of Jama Masjid, Fatehpur Sikri

A dusty cafe in Fatehpur Sikri

The lovely girl who skillfully acquired my pen-but will surely need it for school

The Taj Mahal, so striking in person

My wonderful travel companion, my Mom

And my travel savvy brother, Nick

My last night in Mumbai, Chowpatty Beach a human-powered ferris wheel

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Wait, wait...I don't want to see anything I like because this is real. Everything is a complete illusion. Pink Floyd is a f-ing sellout, something I never thought possible. Everyone is looking for something and it's all meaningless. This blog is f-ing nothing-it's a speedbump-not even a speedbump in the flow of things...Everyone and everything is so sad I can't even believe it-why why why do we all buy into it??? I have no idea? I will likely die with no explanation to this phenomenon and that is the sad reality of life-that I am a westerner with too much opportunity plagued by the same reality as a non-westerner struggling to survive with a single reality. That/this is the tragedy-not that we can't reconnect, connect, establish ourselves...this world is destined to die and we will die along with it. That is the reality. I can already hear people saying "Oh , Ashley is depressed, someone help her..." Well, this is help-this is truth. There is no help. We are all "depressed" and we might as well fess up to it! There! I did it! In my tiny corner of the internet which is the only reality (seemingly)-I admit that the world is an illusion and I want nothing to do with it! Ahhh, I feel better already...

I wonder if in 2009, Barack Obama will be added to the proper names in predictive text of cell phones....